That is the last time I hook up with a girl in sales. I dunno what is wrong with these women but I guess being in sales for so long makes them really jaded and masculine. They are cool to hang out with as a friend but they do not make very good lovers. She would just say random things that were gross or act like a guy in too many ways. Also I hate listening to people talk who talk too much or repeat themselves. I guess the thing is that she is a bit obnoxious and that is not the kind of girl I am looking for. I should have taken that into consideration when I first met her but I have never dated a girl in sales before so I thought it would at least be an educational experience for me and I was right. I sent her an email last night explaining that I am looking for something long term right now and I just didn’t see it working out that way. I have not got a reply yet and I may never get one. Part of me hopes I don’t hear back from her because that would be so much easier lol. Work has been pretty busy lately which is a good thing since I am a workaholic lol.
I went through all the girls I was talking to actively and asked myself if I could see myself with them long term. In almost every case the answer was no so I just deleted them or sent them a message telling them that was the case. I am now down to two girls that are potential candidates but I have never met either of them. I have only been chatting with them. I realized that I do have very high expectations when it comes to the physical appearance of my potential long term mate and I am kidding myself to be talking to and dating girls that are not up to par with what I want so I am going to be far more picky from now on and if it means going on less dates and being lonely until I meet girls that fit this criteria so be it. One girl her name is Holly and she runs a spa. She is not quite as thin as I normally would like but her face is very very attractive and for me, the face is the most important thing. I am obsessed with gorgeous women. I would take a good looking woman that is slightly overweight vs a thin ugly girl. I really like her personality so far and I am anxious to meet her but she is not on MSN much.
The other one is this girl who is half Jamaican and half white. She is tall and good looking and she says she goes to the gym 5 days a week so she must have a nice body. I can kind of tell how hot she is from her pics but not totally. I will have to meet her in person to see if I am really attracted to her or not. Holly on the other hand has very very clear pictures of herself with no makeup and she looks damn good so I know I will like her, I just hope I can tolerate her body lol. She is tall also, I dunno what it is, but my whole life I have been with petite women and now all the women I am meeting are tall. I also fancied tall women, I mean my ideal girl is a model who does yoga basically lol. I have message both of them today telling them that it has been great chatting with them but I really want to meet them so when can we get together for coffee. Hopefully I will hear back from both of them very soon and get to go out on a couple of dates so I have something more interesting to post here on my blog for my next entry. Talk to y’all soon!